Differences

Some women, like Diamond, find the idea of being with a man who will do things to them that really hurt and are against their will exciting and erotic, but do not find a painful punishment erotic at the time. Others do not find the pain of a good thrashing erotic in itself but are so aroused by the control it represents that sex is definitely on their mind when the thrashing is over. Some are masochists and/or spankos and find it directly erotic. Different individuals feel differently about these things.